diff --git a/src/core/apis/friend.ts b/src/core/apis/friend.ts
index cc808ffb..64cd045f 100644
--- a/src/core/apis/friend.ts
+++ b/src/core/apis/friend.ts
@@ -70,7 +70,9 @@ export class NTQQFriendApi {
     async isBuddy(uid: string) {
         return this.context.session.getBuddyService().isBuddy(uid);
     }
-
+    async clearBuddyReqUnreadCnt(){
+        return this.context.session.getBuddyService().clearBuddyReqUnreadCnt();
+    }
     /**
      * @deprecated
      * @param forced
diff --git a/src/core/entities/notify.ts b/src/core/entities/notify.ts
index 9fb8c9ba..e6918dc1 100644
--- a/src/core/entities/notify.ts
+++ b/src/core/entities/notify.ts
@@ -64,6 +64,7 @@ export enum BuddyReqType {
 }
 
 export interface FriendRequest {
+    isBuddy?: boolean;
     isInitiator?: boolean;
     isDecide: boolean;
     friendUid: string;
diff --git a/src/core/services/NodeIKernelBuddyService.ts b/src/core/services/NodeIKernelBuddyService.ts
index 9a58813f..731b39b1 100644
--- a/src/core/services/NodeIKernelBuddyService.ts
+++ b/src/core/services/NodeIKernelBuddyService.ts
@@ -65,7 +65,7 @@ export interface NodeIKernelBuddyService {
 
     delBuddyReq(uid: number): void;
 
-    clearBuddyReqUnreadCnt(): void;
+    clearBuddyReqUnreadCnt(): Promise<GeneralCallResult>;
 
     reqToAddFriends(uid: number, msg: string): void;
 
diff --git a/src/onebot/index.ts b/src/onebot/index.ts
index 782f1042..cabcbc42 100644
--- a/src/onebot/index.ts
+++ b/src/onebot/index.ts
@@ -283,8 +283,16 @@ export class NapCatOneBot11Adapter {
     private initBuddyListener() {
         const buddyListener = new BuddyListener();
 
-        buddyListener.onBuddyReqChange = reqs => {
-            reqs.buddyReqs.forEach(async req => {
+        buddyListener.onBuddyReqChange = async reqs => {
+            this.core.apis.FriendApi.clearBuddyReqUnreadCnt();
+            for (let i = 0; i < reqs.unreadNums; i++) {
+                const req = reqs.buddyReqs[i];
+                //req.isBuddy === false是单向好友 null为常规情况
+                // if (req.isBuddy === false && ) {
+                //     const NTQQFriendApi = this.core.apis.FriendApi;
+                //     await NTQQFriendApi.handleFriendRequest(req.friendUid + '|' + req.reqTime, true);
+                // }
+
                 if (!!req.isInitiator || (req.isDecide && req.reqType !== BuddyReqType.KMEINITIATORWAITPEERCONFIRM)) {
                     return;
                 }
@@ -299,7 +307,7 @@ export class NapCatOneBot11Adapter {
                 } catch (e) {
                     this.context.logger.logDebug('获取加好友者QQ号失败', e);
                 }
-            });
+            }
         };
 
         this.context.session.getBuddyService().addKernelBuddyListener(