diff --git a/src/onebot/api/msg.ts b/src/onebot/api/msg.ts
index 7c2dbe7c..a9b24cb6 100644
--- a/src/onebot/api/msg.ts
+++ b/src/onebot/api/msg.ts
@@ -33,6 +33,7 @@ import { uri2local } from '@/common/file';
 import { RequestUtil } from '@/common/request';
 import fs from 'node:fs';
 import fsPromise from 'node:fs/promises';
+import { OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent } from '@/onebot/event/notice/OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent';
 import { SysMessage, SysMessageType } from '@/core/proto/ProfileLike';
 
 type RawToOb11Converters = {
@@ -631,10 +632,18 @@ export class OneBotMsgApi {
             return;
         }
         for (const element of msg.elements) {
-            if (element.grayTipElement && element.grayTipElement.subElementType == NTGrayTipElementSubTypeV2.GRAYTIP_ELEMENT_SUBTYPE_JSON) {
-                if (element.grayTipElement.jsonGrayTipElement.busiId == 1061) {
-                    const PokeEvent = await this.obContext.apis.FriendApi.parsePrivatePokeEvent(element.grayTipElement);
-                    if (PokeEvent) return PokeEvent;
+            if (element.grayTipElement) {
+                if (element.grayTipElement.subElementType == NTGrayTipElementSubTypeV2.GRAYTIP_ELEMENT_SUBTYPE_JSON) {
+                    if (element.grayTipElement.jsonGrayTipElement.busiId == 1061) {
+                        const PokeEvent = await this.obContext.apis.FriendApi.parsePrivatePokeEvent(element.grayTipElement);
+                        if (PokeEvent) return PokeEvent;
+                    }
+                }
+                if (element.grayTipElement.subElementType == NTGrayTipElementSubTypeV2.GRAYTIP_ELEMENT_SUBTYPE_XMLMSG) {
+                    //好友添加成功事件
+                    if (element.grayTipElement.xmlElement.templId === '10229' && msg.peerUin !== '') {
+                        return new OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent(this.core, parseInt(msg.peerUin) || Number(await this.core.apis.UserApi.getUinByUidV2(msg.peerUid)));
+                    }
                 }
             }
         }
diff --git a/src/onebot/index.ts b/src/onebot/index.ts
index 47b29e2d..b21f0060 100644
--- a/src/onebot/index.ts
+++ b/src/onebot/index.ts
@@ -40,7 +40,6 @@ import { OB11GroupAdminNoticeEvent } from '@/onebot/event/notice/OB11GroupAdminN
 import { GroupDecreaseSubType, OB11GroupDecreaseEvent } from '@/onebot/event/notice/OB11GroupDecreaseEvent';
 import { OB11GroupRequestEvent } from '@/onebot/event/request/OB11GroupRequest';
 import { OB11FriendRecallNoticeEvent } from '@/onebot/event/notice/OB11FriendRecallNoticeEvent';
-import { OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent } from '@/onebot/event/notice/OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent';
 import { OB11GroupRecallNoticeEvent } from '@/onebot/event/notice/OB11GroupRecallNoticeEvent';
 import { LRUCache } from '@/common/lru-cache';
 import { NodeIKernelRecentContactListener } from '@/core/listeners/NodeIKernelRecentContactListener';
@@ -311,16 +310,8 @@ export class NapCatOneBot11Adapter {
 
     private initBuddyListener() {
         const buddyListener = new NodeIKernelBuddyListener();
-        const buddyPendingReqs: string[] = [];
 
         buddyListener.onBuddyReqChange = async reqs => {
-            for (const buddyUid of buddyPendingReqs) {
-                if (this.context.session.getBuddyService().isBuddy(buddyUid)) {
-                    buddyPendingReqs.splice(buddyPendingReqs.indexOf(buddyUid), 1);
-                    await this.networkManager.emitEvent(new OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent(this.core, Number(await this.core.apis.UserApi.getUinByUidV2(buddyUid))));
-                }
-            }
-
             this.core.apis.FriendApi.clearBuddyReqUnreadCnt();
             for (let i = 0; i < reqs.unreadNums; i++) {
                 const req = reqs.buddyReqs[i];
@@ -329,7 +320,6 @@ export class NapCatOneBot11Adapter {
                 }
                 try {
                     const requesterUin = await this.core.apis.UserApi.getUinByUidV2(req.friendUid);
-                    buddyPendingReqs.push(req.friendUid);
                     await this.networkManager.emitEvent(new OB11FriendRequestEvent(
                         this.core,
                         parseInt(requesterUin!),