diff --git a/src/main/main.ts b/src/main/main.ts
index c5245bb..eed278b 100644
--- a/src/main/main.ts
+++ b/src/main/main.ts
@@ -191,10 +191,11 @@ function onLoad() {
           postOb11Event(groupEvent)
         }
       })
-      OB11Constructor.FriendAddEvent(message).then((friendAddEvent) => {
-        if (friendAddEvent) {
-          // log("post friend add event", friendAddEvent);
-          postOb11Event(friendAddEvent)
+      OB11Constructor.PrivateEvent(message).then((privateEvent) => {
+        log(message)
+        if (privateEvent) {
+          // log("post private event", privateEvent);
+          postOb11Event(privateEvent)
         }
       })
     }
@@ -215,7 +216,7 @@ function onLoad() {
           pokeEvent = new OB11GroupPokeEvent(parseInt(id))
         }
         else {
-          pokeEvent = new OB11FriendPokeEvent(parseInt(id))
+          pokeEvent = new OB11FriendPokeEvent(parseInt(selfInfo.uin), parseInt(id))
         }
         postOb11Event(pokeEvent)
       })
diff --git a/src/onebot11/constructor.ts b/src/onebot11/constructor.ts
index 643a0f4..2b46448 100644
--- a/src/onebot11/constructor.ts
+++ b/src/onebot11/constructor.ts
@@ -47,7 +47,8 @@ import { mFaceCache } from '../ntqqapi/constructor'
 import { OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent } from './event/notice/OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent'
 import { OB11FriendRecallNoticeEvent } from './event/notice/OB11FriendRecallNoticeEvent'
 import { OB11GroupRecallNoticeEvent } from './event/notice/OB11GroupRecallNoticeEvent'
-import { OB11GroupPokeEvent } from './event/notice/OB11PokeEvent'
+import { OB11FriendPokeEvent, OB11GroupPokeEvent } from './event/notice/OB11PokeEvent'
+import { OB11BaseNoticeEvent } from './event/notice/OB11BaseNoticeEvent';
 
 let lastRKeyUpdateTime = 0
 
@@ -307,6 +308,35 @@ export class OB11Constructor {
     return resMsg
   }
 
+  static async PrivateEvent(msg: RawMessage): Promise<OB11BaseNoticeEvent> {
+    if (msg.chatType !== ChatType.friend) {
+      return;
+    }
+    for (const element of msg.elements) {
+      if (element.grayTipElement) {
+        if (element.grayTipElement.subElementType == GrayTipElementSubType.MEMBER_NEW_TITLE) {
+          const json = JSON.parse(element.grayTipElement.jsonGrayTipElement.jsonStr);
+          if (element.grayTipElement.jsonGrayTipElement.busiId == 1061) {
+            //判断业务类型
+            //Poke事件
+            let pokedetail: any[] = json.items;
+            //筛选item带有uid的元素
+            pokedetail = pokedetail.filter(item => item.uid);
+            if (pokedetail.length == 2) {
+              return new OB11FriendPokeEvent(parseInt((uidMaps[pokedetail[0].uid])!), parseInt((uidMaps[pokedetail[1].uid])));
+            }
+          }
+          //下面得改 上面也是错的grayTipElement.subElementType == GrayTipElementSubType.MEMBER_NEW_TITLE
+        }
+      }
+    }
+    // 好友增加事件
+    if (msg.msgType === 5 && msg.subMsgType === 12) {
+      const event = new OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent(parseInt(msg.peerUin))
+      return event
+    }
+  }
+
   static async GroupEvent(msg: RawMessage): Promise<OB11GroupNoticeEvent> {
     if (msg.chatType !== ChatType.group) {
       return
@@ -513,17 +543,6 @@ export class OB11Constructor {
     }
   }
 
-  static async FriendAddEvent(msg: RawMessage): Promise<OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent | undefined> {
-    if (msg.chatType !== ChatType.friend) {
-      return
-    }
-    if (msg.msgType === 5 && msg.subMsgType === 12) {
-      const event = new OB11FriendAddNoticeEvent(parseInt(msg.peerUin))
-      return event
-    }
-    return
-  }
-
   static async RecallEvent(
     msg: RawMessage,
   ): Promise<OB11FriendRecallNoticeEvent | OB11GroupRecallNoticeEvent | undefined> {
diff --git a/src/onebot11/event/notice/OB11PokeEvent.ts b/src/onebot11/event/notice/OB11PokeEvent.ts
index 1c8f964..4811a35 100644
--- a/src/onebot11/event/notice/OB11PokeEvent.ts
+++ b/src/onebot11/event/notice/OB11PokeEvent.ts
@@ -10,11 +10,10 @@ class OB11PokeEvent extends OB11BaseNoticeEvent {
 }
 
 export class OB11FriendPokeEvent extends OB11PokeEvent {
-  sender_id: number
-  constructor(user_id: number) {
-    super()
-    this.user_id = user_id
-    this.sender_id = user_id
+  constructor(user_id: number, target_id: number) {
+    super();
+    this.target_id = target_id;
+    this.user_id = user_id;
   }
 }